Chatting.....

Many times in my life i have wondered what is the purpose of this chatting? why was it invented? Is it a computerised version of the chat we have in real life with our frends, the answer is a clear NO. B coz in reality, when we have a chat, we cannot hide somethings like our appearance etc. what we spoeak is truth ateast to some extent. But in the online chatting we hide everything.Nobody will show their true faces.
On the optimistic perspective the use of a chat is to pass some time and share some useful info among us and develop some frendship. but only a meagre amount of people who chat,belong this to optimistic category. They always see the positive side. but the other part which is more common is the negative evolution of this chat, cateorically speaking there are 3 kinda ppl.
1. These people log in and just hunt for some female ids and once they get it they beg the person to chat with them. I doubt whether girls do the same with boys because there is no need for them to hunt ids, we are always the volunteers both in terms of chat and love proposals.
2. The second category is the most common. They are the people who search for sex in chat. In fact this search has led to a new term called Cyber Sex. This sounds funny isnt it. Just before a week i found an id named "for_aunties_without_panties". Eventhough the id is creative :) he is just looking for someone to talk dirty. Some people are ready to talk dirty to persons of same sex also. Pathetic situation.....
3. There are some people who rename them selves to some female ids, log in as a female pretend to be so and have some chat with the people of the first category and even the 2nd category sometimes. Does these kind of people have some psychological problems?
Some ppl have become addicted to this chatting. I have myself seen this. I can see some ids which are online all the time when i log in to the system. I have the seen the same id being online in morning, evening and night. May be he might have a broad band. But isnt he wasting all the money and time in this chat. I dont mean to say that "Nobody should chat". One day i created a female id and logged into system for chat. Just within a few seconds my screen was populated with too many messages saying Hi, Hello ... one guy even said "Please chat with me, I beg you". the system hung because of these IMs.Thats when i realised how foolish they are. My point is jus say a Hello, if there is no response leave it, why do u need to beg like this? what will these girls or people pretending to be girls think about you? not many of us do tell our true names and our details in chat. I dont mean to say that "Give all your details" but somethings can be said like what r u studying, how you look, job etc. But nobody says the truth. The case filed by a Canadian tamil resident last week is a gud example. One woman deceived him in chat that she looks beautiful and she loves him, this fool gave more than a lakh to this woman, the funniest part is that she gave a tamil actress photo instead of hers and this guy believed in it. There are many similar people out there to do things like this.

In short chatting is another world in which people live with fake identity and false faces.But there are some exceptions....

Anbe Aaaruiyre

I have been listening to this new album by rehman for quiet sometime. i thought i could just blog about Ah Aah audio today. It has been a long wait after AAyitha ezhuthu to hear some standard music from the genius. According to me the wait has turned fruitful. Ah Aah the much hyped movie, has got a gud music score.

The movie has 6 songs. The first one sung by the genius himself is different as usual, i can the feel the power of his voice in the song. "Aararai kodi pergalil...." is how the song starts with. One of my frends commented that this song was like reciting some mantra, i also felt the same at first, but as we all know rehman's songs take over our minds gradually as we listen to it again n again. Now i feel the song is great. Only one negative point is that we have to listen with full concentratioon to understand the lyrics.

The next song is the "Mayiliragae.." the slower version which i rate as the best of all the six,the tune is superb and the tempo is slow and mild that remembers me of some songs in the MSV era.(not the tune :) )this version has been sung by Narsh aiyar and Madhusri, both of them have done a fantastic job. Chance ae illa, a gud evergreen song after Raa Raa.. this year. i am sure this song will earn gud opinion from music critics.

The next one is the "Marangothiye...", the faster version of the preious song. The song starts like the "Thottal poo malarum.." in New but as it goes we can find the difference and the magic done by the genius. This is the second best in my rating.

Then comes the song by SPB(the legend) and Shreya gosal, "Thazhuvudhu...." this song is somewhat different, both of them repeat the same words many times in different modulations which has given the song a gud feel. Pallavi is great, but charanam is not as gud as the pallavi. this is the 3rd best according to me. I feel that this is not a great song for a person like SPB who is a GOD in singing. Shreya goshal has done a gud job, she has also given a feel to this song.

Other songs are not so gud to talk about, they re mediocre numbers according to me. I have not listened to them so much. The heroine of the movie Nila is cute, even though she cannot replace Simran :( she can definitely make it. Lets wait n watch how the controversial director has filmed the songs......

Ego - The devil within

This blog may seem to be a bit of advise or philosophy, but it is the truth. I am writing what i felt about this.The forbidden word ego, what is it? it is the basis of self destruction of a human being. Many a times we have been slaves of this ego.Ego can be said as the inability of a person's mind to accept reality, defeat, failure. we can see our ego everywhere. In college when we dont accept some advise from a junior, in office when we dont hear to our sub ordinates. Ego leads to anger, wrath and hatred towards others. Complex is a cause of ego. How many times do we accept a defeat happily when another person below our stature out performs us? In my point of view a person should not estimate his ownself bcoz if the estimate is over or under, problem will be created.It is very hard to estimate one's own self accurately.What do we loose bcoz of ego? we lose friends, relatives even love is broken sometimes bcoz of ego. Whenever we involve in a fight with others be it our frends, relatives and even parents, many of us dont have the guts to go to the other and say the magic word "SORRY", our so called ego will never allow us to do so. I said guts to ask sorry bcoz it definitely needs a lot of courage to get out of our ego.

We can see the maximum destruction ego can cause to a society in our politics, all the cause of dirty politics is ego between the politicians. The race to decide who is superior? Ego and superiority complex are not much different. The latter is the root cause of all problems. we shud Never have head weight, never think that we are superior. we shud Remember that there will be atleast one person superior to us in this world. Many of you must have known drums Sivamani, he said in one interview that "Mandai kula weight jaasthiyana, veliya namme weight thaana koranjidum" means if we increase weight on our head (dont take this literally :) ), our respect in the society( which he means weight ) will automatically decrease. That is absolutely true.

I have tried to overcome my ego many times it turned out to be successful sometimes.But now i have improved a lot.What to do i am also a part of a normal human race. Ego has become an inherent quality in human beingslike the ability to speak,think and smile. EGO is like diabetes it can be controlled but cannot be cured completely(romba kadichittenaaa... :) ).


P.s: People who read this blog may say "periya paruppunnu nennappu" [he is trying to show off]
I also feel the same when someone talks to me like i have written above,but that is also ego :D .

Movie experience

Today i saw the final part of The Lord of The Rings trilogy.
I have been seeing one part per day for the past 3 days. The storyline of the movie was great. The way these 3 movies were shot are also awesome. The locations particularly deserve a special mention. Kudos to the team.I heard that the locations are in New Zealand. The character which i liked in the film was that of Legolas, how smart and knowledgeable was he. Inspite of enemies being close to him he remained calm and composed i liked his attitude. His archery skills are superb. Thats all for now......

My first blog

This is the 5th blog id i am creating here. each time i create a blog i forget about the login details since i dont use it often, so this time i ve decided to blog regularly. I have made a note of my details.I will blog regularly about myself and some thoughts in my mind.................